So it was ok that he got raped because other people congratulated him? What if the sides had been reversed? What if a 34 year old man had been “dating” a 16 year old girl and she was congratulated when her friends found out?
The point. It went straight over your head.
It’s not that it’s okay because he got congratulated. It’s that it’s EVEN MORE FUCKED UP that his male friends congratulated him because that woman was taking advantage of him. Yet people (usually MRAs) use male rape victims as debate points against people who are trying to help female victims, yet they are actually super shitty to make victims in real life and their only reason for mentioning them is to score points in feminist discussions.
Basically the OP was saying it’s not ok to use male victims to score points if and when you also perpetuate a culture that “congratulates” victims on their victimhood if it makes them look more “manly.” Own your shit, basically.